Help! My partner and I can’t agree on our interior

It’s a common dilemma: “What if my partner and I have completely different tastes?” One loves sleek and minimalist, the other warm and eclectic. One dreams of light tones and soft fabrics, while the other prefers dark materials and bold, sturdy furniture. So how do you create a home that reflects both personalities? Here are three smart ways to find common ground.

1   Find a common thread

Instead of focusing on differences, start by identifying what you do agree on. Maybe there’s a material, a colour, or a design element you both love. Use that as a foundation to build upon. A wooden floor, for example, works in both minimalist and cosy interiors, just like a timeless design piece can adapt to different styles. When you start with something you both connect with, the rest of the design process feels more intentional—without anyone feeling like they’ve had to compromise too much.

2    Moodboards to the rescue

A moodboard is an essential part of any good design process—especially when merging different styles. The best approach? Each person creates a moodboard with interiors, materials, and colours they love. Lay them side by side and look for unexpected overlaps. Often, you’ll realise your styles aren’t as far apart as they first seemed. And if they are? A moodboard makes it easier to see how contrasts can actually complement each other. Visualising a shared aesthetic helps turn discussions into solutions instead of endless debates

Want to learn how to create the perfect moodboard and bring your ideas to life? Check out Kelly’s mini-course on moodboarding - a practical step-by-step guide to visualising your dream interior..

3   Bring in an expert (or a neutral third party)

This is exactly what we do at La Fabrika - translating different styles into a cohesive and balanced interior. Sometimes, an outside perspective is all it takes to spot connections, bridge contrasts, and create solutions that feel natural for both people. A well-designed home isn’t about winning or losing - it’s about crafting a space where both feel at home.

So before you close your Pinterest boards in frustration or get stuck in an endless debate over velvet vs. leather, take a step back. Find the common thread, use moodboards, and don’t be afraid to get a little expert guidance. Your future home will thank you for it!